Stop!

Written on February 18, 2008 – 12:51 pm | by Mani |

There are some things that about Trinbago that disturb me a great deal. Yes crime is a big issue, so are food prices, homelessness etc, but what really worries me a lot is our rhetoric.

Last week while I was browsing Facebook profiles, I came across this group: called F*** the PNM.

Just because a man is a member of a political party or votes a certain way that does not make him evil. Yes many people are misguided, many let race decide how they vote, but to call everyone who voted for the PNM racial and dotish is unproductive.

Man, is stick we stick in this rut? I could just be since I don’t talk like that and I try to be a little more diplomatic than that, that I was offended as I was. But upon reading this, I was dismayed. I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m about ready for people to start voting their consciences and stop voting party – in fact I’m in a hurry for that to happen. So when I read thing like that it feels as though we’re not really making any progress.

And if you see the people in this 356 member group – young smart-looking people. Some even university educated.

Sometimes I feel T&T will be a much better place if we could just tone down the political rhetoric a little. If we could just watch what we say and learn to express ourselves more constructively, we’d be in a much better place than we are now. Yes I understand that people are angry and that people need to vent some steam. But at some point they will have to realize that they are making things progressively worse.

At the end of it all what is the goal here? If the makers of the group are trying to propagate the same type of tribalism by setting people even firmer in their ways than they are now,then they are on the right track. But if they want to get people to think for themselves and change voting patterns, then an “F*** the PNM” group on Facebook couldn’t possible be the way to do it. You can’t woo people over to your side by insulting them – a point lost on some politicians.

It’s a sad thing when people use great vehicles such as social networking sites to spread this kind of rhetoric. And I have to wonder how much longer thing will carry on in this manner before we get the point, which is that you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. If we don’t get the point, pretty soon we will become a country of angry, belligerent people capable only of hurling the basest of insults towards each other and incapable of any kind of civility or fraternity.

In the end it boils down to what we as a people want and what we are going to do to get it. It’s entirely within the rights of the group’s founders to say what they want, but nasty rhetoric probably won’t get them (or us) anywhere. People who are genuinely interested in seeing Trinidad prosper, I feel, would choose their words more carefully than that.

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  1. 15 Responses to “Stop!”

  2. By bandwagonist on Feb 18, 2008 | Reply

    mani firs ting… simply cause u went university doh mean yuh bright or could have logical thought… it doh mean u ‘educated’…

    my real point… that’s why i ignore them… these separatist thrive when given attention…

    funny thing is that membership may grow from you pointing it out now… I not saying that your readers are of that ilk, cause i most def not, but we need to simply “Let the JACKA**es bray” and continue with positivity

  3. By Marcel on Feb 18, 2008 | Reply

    Imagine what potential employers might think and not just Trinibagoians.

    See:
    http://www.5min.com/Video/Facebook-What-They-Really-Have-On-You-6650212

  4. By Ian on Feb 19, 2008 | Reply

    Actually you’re forgetting the MAIN reason why.

    Its frustration and fear. It has really NOTHING to do with logical thought or behaving in a ‘nice’ manner. Its just being reactionary.

    I for one AGREE with this group! I wouldn’t join it mind you because it really serves no PRACTICAL purpose except to aloow people to vent their frustrations, in the end, but you HAVE to admit. . . the PNM really doing a lot of Bovine Excreta! lol

  5. By Mani on Feb 19, 2008 | Reply

    Well, Bandwagonist, I though about all that. I didn’t know if I could get my point across if I didn’t mention the group. I thought I would have had to have danced around it too much to talk about it, so i thought I better say it an dget it over with. I agree with you though, just because you edumacated, that doh really mean nothing in the long run. From now on I will take your advice and let the jack***es bray. Is positivity from now on.

  6. By Mani on Feb 19, 2008 | Reply

    Ian I agree that people need to vent. I also understand frustration and fear. That’s all well and good. But there are better ways to do this. If at the end of it all they just go and get people fired up and angry, then they could vent from now till 2012 and they wouldn’t have accomplished anything. Everybody will still vote they same way they’ve always voted and what would we have to show for it?

  7. By bandwagonist on Feb 19, 2008 | Reply

    tru tru tru… i totally understand that perspective

  8. By LaLunePress on Feb 19, 2008 | Reply

    If we want to move the country “forward together” we cannot be so selective. The ‘centre’ politics is the bell curve, our very survival relies on the tail-end probabilities (party extremists). The politico-’normal’ or centre of the curve is not only an all-inclusive middle-ground, it is also the top of the curve (on political evolution scale). This group of people have the right to envision their own space and identity in the political culture of T&T and we have to respect that (no matter how crude or objectionable they may seem). “We” country is a meta-circle composed of many circles – the boundaries are clear but we are together in this thing. When the time come, we will need to pull this circle back in, by that time instead of F*** the PNM, they will have returned to being Knife & Fork the PNM.

  9. By Shivonne on Feb 20, 2008 | Reply

    How the heck do i send you an e-mail?

  10. By Mani on Feb 21, 2008 | Reply

    LaLunePress, I agree that they have the right to say what they want and we have to respect it regardless, but I’m not sure that I can see how our very survival depends on them.

  11. By HottieHottie on Mar 19, 2008 | Reply

    Actually, I think things would get better if people would just allow me to light a match every once in a while and toss he ass on de rubbish heap.

  12. By julie_mango on Mar 27, 2008 | Reply

    I don’t think Trinidad is willing to change anytime soon.Ironically-we Just might be holding back tobago who desires differently.

  13. By Errol on Mar 27, 2008 | Reply

    I really don’t understand the people of my country, everything is falling apart and they blame the government,yet still although everyone, when asked, said they never voted for this government.
    If they did not vote for this government then the voting machines must be rigged or people counting the votes is not doing it coorrect

  14. By Errol on Mar 27, 2008 | Reply

    My free birth certificate have costed me $300.00 so far and is still not worth the paper it is printed on.

  15. By Neikelle on Jun 9, 2008 | Reply

    Stop hating haters!!!!!!!!

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